A giant misunderstanding, a call over a terrible line, words spoken not in anger but frustration at the situation not the girl friend. And a situation that has escalated beyond all rationality. Having lost both parents in the past 4 years, this pain seems all too familiar. Silence. Hurt turned to Anger turned to Hate. Prayers would be very much appreciated to resolve matters and to get back to love. Forgiveness frees the soul. Anger fuels hate. Love heals it.