My wife and I have been married for 16 years and together for 18. We have 3 beautiful girls ages 18, 16 and 11. We have had a rough go of things for the past 10 years and are now separated. She says she doesn't know who she is anymore, and that she isn't in Love anymore. We are equally to blame for this happening. I have to take a job out of town and will be there 4 days a week then back to where I'm staying to see the kids and try to salvage what's left (if anything at all). We need this job for medical benefits and money as there is nothing where we live. I am still totally in Love with her and am unwilling to give up. I have been asking God to change us into the people we are meant to be in Christ, and to bring us together as a man and wife again. I am praying that God will restore our Marriage.