i have a friend john --just stopped by to see me, with heart breaking news --his 24 yr old son took his own life--loaded a shot gun put it in his mouth &pulled the trigger -- dear god help me with this --i was at a loss--i had no idea what to say my tongue was paralyzed but my arms were open & i am so thankful to have touched his life in a way that he came to me to just cry --dear god let me always be that kind of a friend!! please pray for john & his family--dear god bless nick's heart --we are really reaching out -god bless you all deb cain