I need prayers big time My marriage of ten yrs,all its ups and downs has come a long way.We have 11 children together downsized our home and my husband lost a really good job over a yr. and a half ago.My relationship has lost its intimacy completely,my husband has some issues and so do i .It seems like the longer we keep finding no time for us alone the easier it is to become insecure and find reasons for divorce.We have 6 children still at home and all under 10,weve overcome struggles and our children have finally believed we are all together in this,only it seems like divorce could be in the future some time.I pray my marriage flourishes and we can revive our love for us and our kids