dear sweet JESUS , my brothers and sister have not spoken since my mother died 2 yrs ago. alot was said and alot was done . i lost all family except my immediate family of my husband ,2 boys theirs spouses and my grandchildren. it hurts so much that we are so divided and will never be together again. they wanted to take a picture of all of us around her in the hospital while she was unconcious and and i said no she wouldnt want that and my brother said its not about that its about not being together again so i still said no and i left. i wanted to take her ,they put her in a nursing home. my husband asked why they were treating me this way and everyone started to fight. there is so much more to it but they will always think they were right so i dont try anymore to get in touch with them . im sorry i just cant. i love them all and raised the two that is so mean now they cant see but down their noses like im nobody. i just wish things were different and that we were all close again . IN JESUS NAME AMEN