please pray for me Jose and my family. My wife and i have been married for over nine years and now she wants out. I have tried for months(5) to stick with her and help her get over an infidelity(just a symptom of our problem) but, now she wants to separate. She is going through a personal problem (depression runs in her family) and is not letting anyone in. In fact instead of making the changes she needs to in life... her decision is to change me. I have stopped blaming myself but i worry for her (Leigh) and our two children.