Help me with dealing with my mother Bubby Sally who is 88 years old. I don't want to put up a barrier against my own mother and her putting guilt trips on me has to stop. Do not allow me to feel guilty or negative. Give her compassion, understanding and a mother's love. Stop her narcissistic attitude when communicating with me. Let all our communications be positive not negative as it is. Stop her from blaming me for what is wrong in her life and the ostracization of her children and their families. It is not my fault. Help her to realize that the others buy her gifts in order to sway her to their court. Help her to realize that the Love I give unselfishly is more priceless than tangible items. Stop her from comparing my family and interferrng to the other members of my extended family. Bring harmony back. Stop all physical pain in my body and give me back strength and mobility in my legs. Keep me in the present with positive energy and not allow my mother to make me negative. Let my husband get back to work asap.