My husband and I are raising our neice. Unfortunately she has alot of mixed emotions about her parents who have really hurt her.M. rebells and has melt downs all the time... she doesn't know how to positively express herself, which then turns into a circus in my home. She says counsling hasn't helped her.We talk. No results .... Second my husband lacks work. Please call someone.............x-mas is here.............Feeling drained all the way around...Not giving up... in the least god knows what we need.... all the time....