Praying for a cure from a fiscal crisis..I'm not making the same amount of money I was 2 years ago (about 250 less a week) ..and to help keep afloat, I had to cash in parts of my 401k..I can probably do that for another year at the most..but even if I can get a return to the same rate I had...marriage seems more unlikely because of declining health (and therefore increased fiscal dependence on me)...I heard of patience..but I just turned 40...