Please pray that I may learn to let things go. I'm hurting my marriage by holding on to many things of the past and I don't know how to change. Please also pray that husband can start understanding a little better about the things that do hurt me and can possibly help make things right instead of getting defensive about it all. And please pray that I keep what little will power I have left to keep trying to male him happy instead of just wanting to give up and stop caring about the things he does all together.