My wife and I are having issues around parenting and money. We have been married for 18 years and this was never a problem until recently. 2 of our kids moved out at 18 years of age and continue to make horrible life choices. We have a 16 yr old at home and I think we need to change our parenting style so he does not leave and give up on college but my wife is dead set on doing things the way we always did. I do not see way to compromise and I am fearful she will just leave, as she has mentioned she would. Please pray for our marriage.