I had a family some what until mom died; an then by following her wishes in resolving things; most disagreed. So, now most never send a birthday card, Christmas card, etc..... You get the idea by now...... to me. Some will not even leave me alone trying to figure ways to get me out of moms old house so they can do what they want with it... I took care of mom all her last yrs not them; an that is their gratitude. Pray that Father God shows the way for me to go in this. Amen