I have just received a disturbing letter from my son's adoptive parents'. in some ways I can see their point and in so much others I wish they can see mine as well. I so badly want for the four of us to get along with each other for Robert. I need guidance in how to respond to this letter so I can get my point across but also without hurting them or Robert but also to try to figure out what sacrifices should I really have to make here please pray that I will make the right decisions