please pray for my sister which is having a hard time understanding that im not trying to hurt her in any sort of way. she has always been the sister that had to have the upper hand with me. and now that im not the little sister that she feels i'am still,she gets very offensive when i speak my mind when i think she is looking at things in a wrong way with our siblins. i guess she thinks that i should feel the same way as she does,and the way i look at it life is short enough why waste it on critasizeing others when she has faults of her own. we all have faults,and i believe we need to just love each other and let go of things that arent inportant. she is a person who always seemed to be very controling and hold grudges toward family.