My 84 year old mother is ill with lung cancer. It was diagnosed awhile ago (2013). She is now with Hospice and has been for over a year. A hospital bed has been brought in, she is off all meds and her cat has gone to another relative's home because she cannot take care of it. When I received this info I called Hospice and spoke to the Chaplain. When my mother found out I called she told them that they were not to give me any information; I am her only living relative.
I don't understand this and why it seems that she has to have control until the very end. This is the way it has been all her life, but now she is acting mean. Every time I call her she yells at me. I know she is venting but it does not make my anxiety any better.
I am contemplating going there. It is 3000 miles away, an expensive trip and if I get there and she is angry with me, then what? I have been feeling that things were not right for sometime and now I get it. Please I need calming prayers and prayers to enlighten me as what to do.