Dearest Father,

I recently remet a friend of mine who I've liked for a long period of time. He is currently discerning for his religious vocation, and it's phenomenal how our journey have been so similar in the past few years. It's also great to see how you've played such a BIG role in our lives. I was really thankful to see him again, but once again, I realized how I still have feelings for him. He told me he will be doing his vocation in the same state as me, but it really bothers me. I am conflicted because I really want to let him know how I feel just so I'll be able to move on. It's really hard harboring these feelings for nearly 3 years already. I honestly don't expect him to drop his discernment nor do I expect him to feel the same way for me either. I know that even if he doesn't mutually feel the same way about me and wants to serve you, I'd be willing to wholeheartedly support his vocation for you, Father. Until then, please grant me the wisdom and courage to move on or at least be able to express myself. Thank you, father.

Sincerely,

Your child