I'm a Minister. So prior to Marriage I didn't think We would need Premarital Counseling. Oh how I was wrong. After three years Married I still have to Pray and Pray. Now My Spouse feels We need Counseling. What seems pretty for Her is major to Me. Both are Church going Christian's. I do believe We believe the same and seek the same God. Sometimes I Wonder about the Respect of Marriage. This being both our second Marriage, I was divorced 26 years prior. So I had time to heal. Her only being a few Months, I do not believe She healed. So I Pray and Pray some more. Is it that or something from Her past. Is it just My insecurities. Or My past. Lord help us.