On this day of your life, Arnoldo J, we believe God wants you to know ... that you are not to shut love out of your life by saying it is impossible to find and keep.
The quickest way to find love is to give love. If you want it too badly, you will not find it. The most secure way to keep love is to give it space and care to grow. If you hold it too tightly, you will lose it.

To whom ever (we) are My God knows everything and I do not believe this is his message to me. Not in denial just tried of being used. If I'm wrong then he will deal with me. That's my prayer to those of us in the same sitution.