Will be praying. go seek counsel. Good godly counsel. have her also go. not sure how long you have been married. if she won't go to counseling then sorry let her go. was married for over 25 yrs. he physically did not cheat on me . it was an emotional affair with a very very close friend of mine. he already had filed for divorce. picked me up from the airport one day and never came back to the home. seven yrs later we are now friends. we went to counseling etc .I still went to church .he had stopped. now he knows I would never go back with him. unfortunately the person that had counseled us was a pastor. no longer .he shut his church down left his wife and three children ,divorced her and remarried his high school sweetheart. this has happened so many times to really close people to me and it gets very discouraging especially when they are christians. I still believe and never will stop. Keep your eyes on Jesus.

God impressed me of these two verses:
Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” (Mark 10:9-12)
The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full. (John 10:10)

Fight for your marriage, in Jesus name!

A marriage without trust and cheating is NOT a marriage. Get help to discover your options....Pain from dreadful events happen every day to everyone.....It does lessen over time, esp. if you do something to end the pain......Seek out professional help.....Your church elders, Pastor or Priest may guide you to a quality individual who can help......GOD BLESS YOU! Yes, Joseph, I WILL pray for you!

God bless you Joseph! Will you read for me 1Peter 5:7. Rest in the peace of Jesus Christ brother! You're going to be ok.