My wife Chelsey and I have been apart 14 months. We were almost back together a number of times but 2 pastors and a friend of hers have been on her constantly to not talk to me . Till I jumped threw hoops. Now because of her PTSD and the pastors going back to her with everything I have said to them she no longer wants to fix the marriage. She is trying to be a pastor herself and is now using the excuse that I am physically abusive which is not true at all . These pastors have done a number on us and when i told them to stay out of our marriage they said i was split personality . They had me cut off from everyone including the charity Pink Sapphire Society that my wife and i started I need help and prayer . Im giving up