Dearest Father,

I am currently in need of your grace/wisdom/courage to discern and decide whether to call off a 3 year relationship. I am very sad because there have been so many memories and strong ties that will have to be broken. We are so different but the same conflicts keep arising but never resolved. I've done all that I can do and have loved so much but I realize how it's been just one way. In the end, I realize the ultimate reason that we are in this state is because he doesn't have you centered in his life. Everything he does is only centered on himself, and I can't keep appeasing to his needs. I deserve love and respect too. I am very sad but I will try once more to address the problem. If it cannot be done, I will have to move on as hard as it seems. I know you have plans for me always and I trust in your love, I just pray that no matter what you will be beside him and that one day he will see/experience your love to change for the better. I am unsure if I'll be there to witness that change or not, regardless, I just keep praying even if we end up separate ways.

Your child,

Ai