Prayer Request
Hi to all . Im requesting a prayer for my marriage not to be over. We just had a baby girl 3 months ago , and this year with covid and all, has been really bad for us . We blame each other instead of taking responsibility for our own faults. I don’t want to loose my marriage, specially now with our new baby. I have no family to really on, and i feel very lonely. I need all the prayers i can get to have the best resolution for our future and that of our girl. If God has better plans for me let it end amicably but if not then please God give me a Christmas Miracle and help us see the light. Many thanks to all ! And God Bless you.
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Ummm Father, show me how to pray, it's gonna take you, only you, I agree with Silvana for a miracle blessing on her Marriage, Lord its written that you hate divorce... it's not so much the law of it, but the spirit of it, it's division you hate, So Lord I pray for a Spirit of unity to fall upon her and her husband, I bind them together with you cause you said in ecclesiastics that a 3 cord stand is not quickly broken, so be there in their midst... Father right now, I ask for your Spirit to rest on her husband, I send out your warring angels and your ministering angels to tend to this particular marriage, I ask that you tenderize both their hearts to receive your word to them about their own part, I pray for a humbling of hearts, and agree with my sister that both take their own responsibility, show Silvana what you want her to do, how she can partner with you... so first i pray about her relationship with you, and her husbands relationship with you, that theyde give themselves fully to you, that each of them would know what it is to have an intimate relationship with you, so encounter them, let them have an experience with you and show them your love Lord give her hubby an encounter with you that he'd never forget, press upon his heart your love for him Lord would you just touch his heart right now to feel your love, and to receive healing from the intense battle & warfare in their relationship right now, heal his wounds and heal Silvanas wounds, pour in the oil of your love into both their hearts, show Silvana how to respond to her hubby and yes help him & guide him to know how to respond to his wife, show them how to be servants but lovers to you first and then to each other
Holy Spirit come, and fill them both! no matter where they are, don't allow hubby to go on his own and entertain the enemies lies and detours and attractions, Same with Silvana and don't allow them to participate with the devil against one another, but guide them and direct them in your love compel them to love & good deeds... so right now I cancel out the assignment of the spirit of division and divorce and I command them to go and I forbid them to harass her & her hubby... Lord I pray for the protection of their baby's heart, mind & soul over all that has gone on in the house, pour out your love and peace on this baby...
Have your way in their individual lives, and in their lives as ONE, and in their home... I speak and declare PEACE BE... in their home and I drive out every contentious spirit let it be a haven to both husband and wife, a place of rest, let him feel like the king of his house and yes Silvana the queen of her home, and them both knowing how to love and support one another, by knowing how to serve one another... In Jesus Name. amen
John 14:16, 17, 18- 16.and I will pray the Father, and He shall give you another Comforter, that He may abide with you forever (The Comforter is someone who comes to help us). 17. Even the Spirit of Truth; Whom the world cannot receive, because it sees Him not, neither knows Him; but you know Him; for He dwells with you, and shall be in you (He dwells in you). 18. I will not leave you comfortless; I will come to you (He will come to you-The Holy Spirit).
Comforter means someone called to your side to help you, comes to our aid, one who defends you, encourages you and helps you for Jesus. In Latin Comforter means-Com means with, Fort means strength, fortify, fortification. So Comforter means with strength in other words the Holy Spirit of God doesn't come to pamper us. The Holy Spirit working in our lives as the Paraclete. The One called alongside us to help us. He don't come to pamper and baby us. The Holy Spirit of God comes to Fortify us. He says your going threw difficulties. He says He's going to do more than sympathize with you, I am going to enable you , counsel you, and empower you, and strengthen you, and I'm going to see you threw.
Jeremiah 29: 11For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Battles, troubles, heartaches will come. When the time comes fight, when you can't fight-Withstand. Fight! Withstand! Don't give up!
1 Peter 5:7 Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.
Nahum 1:7 The Lord is good, a refuge in times of trouble. He cares for those who trust in him,
My prayers are with you and your family. God bless you!
Ramon, I can’t thank you enough for sending me this beautiful email! To take time out of your day, and write and share with me these beautiful messages is awesome! I thank you so much for keeping my family in your prayers. I will do the same for you! God bless you!
Sometimes I have nothing to do but think? Think about family, think about us, think about where I have been, think about where I'm going? In life I have always looked for signs to show me the right way, especially after my first wife of ten years divorced me after I got hurt at the refinery I worked at, but I got lost. I had 4 beautiful kids with her, 3 boys and 1 girl. That was in 2003. I lost my family, I lost my health, and my mind.
She kept my kids from me even though I paid child support every month. I fought with her in family court for 13 years to see my kids. She never once obeyed a court order? I had alot of time to think then? When I had a chance to goto the school events I would. I was at every game they had. Eventually things worked out. I shared custody of our youngest these last ten years. And these last 3 years I finally have my 3 oldest back in my life, and a baby granddaughter I get to watch and see every week.
I met a girl after the divorce who was my friend and helped take care of me because I am very sick from the chemical accident at the refinery back then. I didn't have anything left in this world but hope. Hope that Jesus would save me and help me. And He did. I married this girl and after being friends for 6 years we got married. We have been married ten years last October. She had a little boy back then. No father in his life. So even though my kids were being withheld from me, God blessed me with a boy who needed a father. So I fathered him. He is 22 today. I gave him my heart and love.
I don't believe in divorce. But it does happen. My doctors told me in 2003 I would be lucky to have 10 years no more to live before the cancer would get the better of me. It's been 17 years since then, and no more cancer. I never thought I could love again, and I have never been loved by someone like my wife loves me. I never thought I would ever get my children back in my life, or them letting me back in there's . But God showed me different.
Jesus Christ carried me threw those bad times. He taught me alot of life lessons. And without Him in my life I would have nothing. I never lost hope. I fought, and fought, and withstood and never gave up. So today I just want to say that God put so many people in my life to help me along the way and threw some of the worst storms of my life.
In life we always lose our way, but it's people, not the signs that guide us back to the right path. Fight for Jesus, fight for you, fight for your family, and keep your hope alive. I love my Jesus and He put you and your family in my heart today and that's why I am writing this to you. May God bless you and your family. Amen
Jeremiah 29:11 11For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Ramon,
Wow, you have gone threw A LOT!!! and you never gave up hope. Know that you inspire me NOT to give up (even when the going gets TOUGH). I pray that Jesus, our savior continues to see you through the good, the bad, and the ugly. I truly am happy that you shared your life experience with me! I needed to hear that. Thank YOU!!!! God is GREAT! Blessings to you and your family!
May God open opportunities for you and your husband to rekindle the love you once had. Pray for each other.
Same thing happened to me, i know what you are going through and it is very difficult, but YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS :)
Yes I will be praying for you and your family! God Bless You!
Praying for peace and clarity
Thank you!
SENDING PRAYERS
MICHAEL
Stay strong and do some exercises online if you can’t get to therapy. Where there is a will, there is surely a way. Depending on the extremity of your issues, it can be as simple as valuing each others opinions and making compromise. Relationships can be so difficult . Prayers your way but if you’re both willing to work, your marriage will
Work!
This requires two great listeners and two great forgivers. As a couple, do research about effective communication and then forgive one another. This will start the healing and then you must continue to practice the principles that you find.
God put your hand on this family - bind them together and let them heal in Jesus Holy Name!
Children can be very hard on a marriage especially in the beginning. Covid on top has to be hard. Praying for your family
Hugging you right now! Merry Christmas