Love is either unconditional or it's no love. You might like someone conditional on their personality or behavior or circumstances. But love accepts no boundaries. So never say 'I love you because', for love has no cause, love comes from God.

This was my message from God today and it has hit the nail on the head once again....my marriage has been struggling for over a year, I have gotten the movie and book" Fireproof" and "the love dare" and just recieved "thriving thru a difficult marriage". I have work on issues and showed love with little in return. The problem is every time I start to work towards healing, letting go of the hurt, disappointment, and resentment, My spouse, will once again act in a way that bring all those feeling flooding back. I keep trying and keep facing walls of rejection.then I get so down I just want to quit tryin. How can someone keep facing this heartache and not either turn numb or fill back up with hurt and resentment. Will you please pray that thru this I can grow to be a more patient, loving, understanding, and forgiving wife...individual and pray for the confussion I have whether to stay in this marriage and live with the emotional and physical lonliness or whether to end the marriage so I do not get bitter and num and I can heal. Also continue to pray for my children as they are on this emotional rollarcoaster wacthing thier dad's one foot in the door one foot out behavior. In Jesus name Amen.