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FidesJoanne
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Prayer Request

last year I lend money to my cousin wholeheartedly for she was financially drained because her mother died & expenses incurred so she had to pawn her engagement ring. she borrowed money from me 4 months after her mother died, to get her pawned ring. we came to an agreement that i'm not going to incurr interest and that she'll have to pay me in installment and be done with the loan in 6 months time for I have a personal need of the money i lend as scheduled for the tuition fees of my 2 kids, I'm a solo parent. it was a verbal agreement since i trusted her, i told her it's a loan since me & my siblings had pooled our own resources financially to aid them during their hard times. a gift is a gift and a loan is a loan,she even said that she'll include her siblings and father to help her in paying me off. last december her family made a 25% partial payment but up until now not even a cent was shell out. countless reasons they (the family) told me, they don't want to be reminded. their family blocked us (my family) off here in FB, they changed numbers too except for her brother who is my only connection to them for he didn't change numbers & do reply to me whenever i send him a message but still to no avail, (they live in another town) so I am now left hanging, my mother told me to burn bridges with them but i still hope because i don't want to have a scarred relationship with my cousins just because of the loan. other relatives are telling me that my cousins can really afford to go on trips, to travel & that they can pay me if they want to & that my one cousin (the brother is into DJ-ing business & it's prospering) now it is I who is pleading them to help me, for I am in dire need of it now for the upcoming enrollment of my kids. I am reminding them constantly but it seems that they are totally ignoring me. it has been a year since their mother died and there's still the outstanding loan. what disappoints me is that they're not talking to me or discussing terms, it's as if they've forgotten about it. i'm praying that they would have a change of heart and consciously be aware of their responsibility. please pray with me...thank you...