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Carol
Carol Olejnik
Carol
Carol Olejnik
May 3, 2018

Prayer Request

I have come here often in the last 5 years to ask for prayers for my son, Dan. Dan has had constant chronic pain from 4 back surgeries for those 5 years. Dan is only 43 and this has been his life since he was only 38. He can no longer do the things that made him feel as though he were accomplishing taking care of his home and wife and he STILL works FULL TIME swing shift at a very physically demanding job.

Dan is now also suffering from PTSD with all the trauma from the surgeries ... his pain on most days is a 7 or higher and on good days a 5 or 6. He does not want to live like this for long. He is so depressed. He has always done for anyone that needed help and he feels so alone as no one sees the pain and when he mentions it they tell him it is all in his attitude and head.

The doctors are trying to push this off on each other and as far as pain management, they are wanting to put in a spinal cord stimulator and Dan is still a young man.

I see so many with issues like this but they are older and do not have to work full time and try to balance doctors and work and home life. Dan is soooo depressed and I am so worried that if the pain does not soon stop, he will do something drastic as he has told me that he does not want to go on disability and become a burden to society.

I thank anyone willing to pray for Dan. I have been doing prayers, masses, rosaries, chaplets for the last 5 years and I am still of the belief that God will heal. My son thinks he is being punished or that God does not care about him.

Thank you and I pray each evening for all in pain, suffering, with disease, addiction, depression especially for the young and the children.

Carol
Carol Olejnik
Apr 15, 2018

Prayer Request

This was my message from God today. I started off the morning with some of my own pain, but it is nothing compared to my son's. This was my message from God...

Today, Carol, God wants you to know that letting go makes you wealthier.
Wealth is never measured by what you have, but by what you can give away. You are rich with money when you can afford to donate. You are rich with love when you can give love freely. You are rich with God when you can behold your enemy with compassion.

I have never for one moment doubted God in my life. Too many bad things that He got me through to deny His existence and spirit in my journey.

But here is my pondering... today started with a call from my son. My son, Dan is only 43 and works full time swing shift on a very physically demanding job. Five years ago, he had his first back operation and it was done because the surgeons (and there were many who said the same thing) told him he needed it to correct his injury. The first operation was done by a surgeon who had more pride in himself than he had experience and skill and he did my son an injustice by taking too much of his bone... the 2nd surgeon who was only going in to fix it made it worse and the came the fusion by a neurologist. And the fourth one was done in the supposedly best hospital in American HSS in NYC by a highly experienced and recommended neurologist.

My son still has constant chronic pain and this is for the last 5 years of his life (since he was 38) ... young, young, young to be having to live this life of pain. He has been to chiropractors, massage therapists, pain management doctors and once the damage is done by all the human doctors... they simply try to sweep you under the rug by saying it is all in your head or because of your negativity.

My son has also been diagnosed with PTSD because of all this trauma. He feels as he is a burden to his wife, me, and can no longer bear the constant pain so he wants to die. He went to church all the first 3 operations and then could no longer stand to sit in the pews... and to be honest, his faith is wavering because he cannot understand why God cannot just take his pain level from the 9 on the pain scale to a 3 or below so that he can have some quality of life. All his life my son served God by being an altar boy and helping every one he could... I am not claiming him to be a saint, but he has never done anything harmful to anyone but himself and never did drugs or anything illegal.. So he asks me all the time why God doesn't love him ... he wants to find a doctor who will end his suffering and donate all his organs.

Please, if anyone can pray for my son or know of anything he can do (doctors, etc.) who may be able to help, I would be so appreciative ... I have prayed morning, evening, all the day long with chores... and I am feeling defeated also.

Thank you for the prayers, assistance and just for listening. I hope God has the time to listen and help.