So many have lots of advice on what you should do in haste. Take your time. Do what you feel is right for you and your family? Do you want to give up on how much time you've put in to the marriage? Is this a mistake, or does it happen often? Is he wanting to make your lives together work together? If you and your husband want to work it out, with Gods help know that it is possible . It will be a long hard road of forgiveness, communication, and patience not to mention all the other emotions you will go thru, Anger, frustration, trust, but it can be done. Please know a lot of people go thru the same things. You are not alone. Prayers for you and trust in Gods help.