The Word of God says, that "He" that find a wife finds a good thing and finds "favor" with the Lord. Your focus should be on allowing God to be your Husband. If a man is to be apart of your life, he will find you. Focus on the plan and purpose that God has called you too. He is "ordering" your steps.

The Word of God says, "trust in the Lord with "all" of your heart, and lean not to your "own" understanding, acknowledge Him (Jesus) and He shall "direct" your paths. He (Jesus) says, that His thoughts are "not" your thoughts and His ways are not your ways. He will lead and guide you in the "way" that you should go.

The Word of God says, that He (Jesus) will give you perfect "peace" when your mind is stayed on Him. You need to get into the Word of God and "allow" the Word to get into you. The Lord says, that He will give you a "peace" which surpasses all understanding when your mind is stayed on Him. He also tells you to let this mind be on Him which was also in Christ Jesus.