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Karen Kloski
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Karen Kloski

Prayer Request

Can I ask for a prayer? My father has been grieving excessively for my mother, who will be gone 3 years this Christmas Eve. Although it is not easy for any of us, we are doing our best to honor mom's memory and move on. Holidays will NEVER be the same, BUT my father is out at the cemetery anywhere from 3 to 5 times daily, plants grass seed at the gravesite, and always tells us kids that mom was the only thing that mattered to him. He has lost precious time and relationships with his children and grandchildren. He has always been tough to communicate and I have given it my best to communicate with him, love him and try to accept him for who he is. He refuses counseling because "there is nothing wrong with him" as he puts it. We pay daycare in the summer because we do not believe it is healthy for our sons to be at the cemetery daily. I just got into it with him because I went for a visit at his home (which is LITERALLY a shrine with every picture of my mom that has ever been printed), and snapped after the only conversation that he is ever interested in is him making plans for his dying, the grass at the cemetery, conversations with my deceased mother and he does not care about his grandchildren, things going on with us, etc. I guess I've gotten used to it, have been to counseling for myself and sometimes, it just hurts and now is one of those times. I believe God has a plan for all of us and He will never leave us, but now is one of those times when I need the prayer of others to be stronger. Thank you and God Bless!