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Shelby
Shelby Abernathy
Shelby
Shelby Abernathy
Aug 13, 2013

Prayer Request

I am newly married. Today is my 1 month anniversary. I am very in love with my husband but it has been a very rough first month. We both have children and it has been very difficult coming into a blended family situation. There have been so many fights and so many tears. I have lain awake all night more than once. I have crumpled to the floor and sobbed. My heart has been so heavy at times that it felt like it weighs 100 lbs. However I take the sanctity of marriage very seriously and I don't take the commitment I made to my husband, in front of the Lord as I made a vow and a promise lightly. The last 2 days after terrible terrible fighting (not physical...nothing like that), my husband and I were finally getting along wonderfully. I had such hope. Then today I find out that he was deceiving me by keeping something from me. I know he kept it from me because he didn't want to fight with me, but deception is worse than fighting in my opinion. Lying by omission is still lying and if you can't trust your own spouse then it makes it hard to have a healthy marriage because trust plays a pivotal role in a healthy marriage. Please please pray for myself and my husband Greg. I don't want this to be the next 40 or 50 years of my life. I don't want to feel "stuck" in an unhappy marriage but I don't believe in giving up and giving in either. We made a commitment before God. Please pray for healing and for a strong marriage that isn't filled with anger, hurt, and deception. Thank you and God Bless you.