Hello Jeanie,
First of all, please accept my warm hugs because I know you need this more than anything!!!
Secondly, the serenity prayer that has always been my pillar of strength teaches us to Accept the things we cannot change ,Courage to change that which we can and the Wisdom to know the difference.
In your case, please accept your case and take one day at a time. Your mom and brother are in a better place with no pain.(that's what reassures me when my I miss my sister who rested 2 years ago).
Hugs and more hugs!!
I am praying with you.
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Hugs for you and your daughter!!
May our good Lord heal you and may he send Angels to be with you and your daughter always!!!