this is an update/addendum: I have been out of an extended relationship that lasted almost 5 yrs for almost 17 years, and I tried looking at church but of late they are either well too young or in relationships. I have tried online sites, but most of these are providing clients that only look for money and other than that I don't know where to look. Please pray for: my faith to grow related to this matter and God, my ability to find an advisor to help me through this, and also the ability to put my last relationship behind me.