I wish to understand why other women keep trying to or getting into the middle of my marriage. It seems like the more I fight againest this the worse it gets, There is now 2 women playing my husband. Both seem to be after money or maybe not. I get the feeling Jim (husband) wants to be their knight in shining armor. I keep wondering if it is something I am doing wrong or is it something he is going threw. All of this has brought us very close to devorce. I do not want to get a devorce after 18yrs, I just feel this is very wrong. I want to get any qnd all help I can but do not even know where to begin. I just wish I knew if I should give up the fight or if there really is a light at the end of the tunnel. I have and still am trying to talk to him but he just wont open up to me. It seem he can open up to other women but not to me . Please pray that I can find some answers , I feel like I am starting to lose my mind. Thank you and God bless you all.

My husband is playing games he thinks it is ok talk on the phone, text, chat on face book with other woman and the delete and hide this and he feels it is ok, he cheated on me twice in the last 10 yrs and I stayed with him and let him blame me for it. I am now thinking I should devorce him rather than put up with more of the games. I need help in deciding what to do. I know I need to seek some concelling but can not pay for it and have no insurance. Please pray for me to get the help I need and to decide what to do