My husband appears to be going through a midlife crisis and has left me and is living in another state. He was always so head over heels in love with me that it has shocked most of our friends and family, and he seems to be alienating a lot of people including his children. I am worried for him and for myself and our marriage. My heart is shattered and I can't seem to keep myself busy enough to keep from grieving over this. I lost my Dad in December of 2005 and I am going through the same types of grief that I had when he died. I try to stay strong for our 13 year old son. He doesnt' need to have another parent who is not there for him. Pray for our son that he will have an understanding that this is not his fault and that he will continue to love his Dad. Please pray for my husband that he will wake up and realize that he belongs with his wife and child and that he will miss us one day and that he will come back to God and be a good christian husband. Pray for strength for me to get through this and wisdom t