I am hurting as a parent of a teenager who is distancing herself from me and the world is trying to take her loving life away from mom who loves her totally and completely. All her friends have bigger homes and expensive things and we as parents purchase things that in this economy ,we should not & instead should teach her are not necessary in life and we must find joy and fulfillment with the people in our lives who care about us deep within. I want her to have things she desires but we have no real budget and we should as parents, but much more pain comes from dad tearing mom down daily verbally to her and to myself and it has broken a bond I have had 15 years and this year dad pulled her away to his apartment, nearer her school leaving myself and her little shitzu pug alone in this house/ storage building of which I cannot stay home in without her in daily no matter the last three years of driving 2-3 hrs per day to and from school to home depending on her dance or cheer and now dad gets 100% and gives me a couple hrs here and there and today she did come and brought me beautiful pink flowers and her presence, pray that at the beach and church later we will agree on 50/50 time or 30/70 whatever weekly schedule for this summer and beyond. I know the devotion was for me and she is worth any suffering I go through but want it back to loving respectful moments rather than many times she sees me and looks away or speeds past at school etc which hurts to my core!
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