For seven years my fiance and I have been through hell and back with our families. No one is perfect and we all make mistakes. Our families have fought against us and come between us over and over again. Every mistake that has been made in our relationship has been blamed on me. I have given my family no choice but to accept him in their lives. He will not do the same for me. We set our wedding date (for the third time) again a week ago. I have announced it to my family and he will not. We have been fighting for days because he canceled plans with my entire family because at the last minute his 20 year old daughter had time for him. He then blamed this on me because I got angry with him for canceling. During the fighting he told me I had to write a letter of apology to his kids for something that happened a year ago that was a minor issue but his daughter lied about ME and said that I said things that I did NOT say. I provided proof to him that I did not say them. It doesnt matter, he believes her. So, I apologized to his daughter and explained the meaning of forgiveness to her. She refused to respond to me and he thinks it is ok. I have tried on numerous occassions to make things right. He leaves me every year before the holidays because his kids (18 & 20) do not want me around. Please pray for us and that he opens his eyes and sees what is happening and that his kids are harming our relationship, not me. I love them all and have provided well for them for years. I do not know how much more I can take. I love him with all of my heart and want a life with him. I truly do everything that I know how to do to make him happy and make our relationship work. I am not perfect and have never claimed to be. I try to have faith in God but right now, my faith is fading. I pray all the time and things never seem to change. Please say a prayer that I find peace in this relationship and that God become a bigger part of it through him and his family.