Im having a hard time with my sons father, his father says mean and hateful things to me, and sometimes to my son as well..we never see him, or havent spoken to him in a while, but he called the other day, i keep asking myself, what is the right thing to do? should i let my son speak to him? or ignore him? i dont want him to hurt my sons feelings, or make him sad, or say things to him that my son doesnt understand, and get confused or turn on me. Im not sure what to do, i love my son and want to protect him from bad people, even if its his own dad. makes me sad. I just pray that everything will work out, and that he wont bother us again.