I have been happily married for 18 years to a wonderful, loving husband. After a 4 month period of time which my husband was out of state taking care of his ill father after his step-mother died, he asked for a divorce on Christmas Eve. I am totally devastated and crushed as well as our 2 sons. I love and care for him so much and don't understand how our relationship could literally change overnight. Please pray for our family.