Cindy Paulhus I prayed that God teaches you how to conciser it pure joy, as Apostle Paul said, in times of trials and tribulation. I was taught by the Holy Spirit of God to sit and eat my chocolate, be a good sport because in tough times, especially through all those tears, God is up to something so amazing. When you get knocked down in life my dear, stand back up, open up your box of chocolates, pick a few and enjoy eating them and know that you are being trained up for something awesome. We are called to love Jesus with all our heart, soul and mind. Proverbs 3:5..Trust in God with ALL your heart and lean not on your OWN understanding. The moment you feel the tears coming, go to a lonesome quiet place and let all those tears out and cry out to God. You will feel a swift moment of strength, allow the tears, have the moment, then go find things to do that bring you comfort, joy, peace and TRUST GOD. Love you sister in Christ. Gabbi Lovewill. You can google me and send me a friends request for any further encouragement and uplifting. Peace be with you. Love -Gabbi- Thank you all for keeping me in prayer. I would like to be on a huge prayer chain for I labor for our Lord Jesus Christ and continually find my Joy in Him during all my trials and tribulations. Thank you all.