sometimes marriage is so hard. My husband can be so difficult and uncompassionate. I don't know how to handle him sometimes. We have been married 17 years, I try, but he always thinks I am selfish and thinking of myself and threatens to leave. I feel it is my who is always thinking of him, what should I do?? I love him and want our marriage to work, but sometimes, I feel he wants out. He loves putting me on a guilt trip and always blaming me for everything. I need your guidance and help lord. thank you.