please God help me find a way, my kids have so many problems and life is so hard for them , they are in their 40's and I am retired on social security and was looking forward to have a quite old age, I have helped them for years, food money and paid bill,s when I was working. Now I don't have the money and feel guilty cause I do have a home and food, tell me what to do, do I give up my life forever? please show me the way? am I wrong to just take care of myself now that I am old??