@Syllmae Machado-ogas, said it all in a few words. Love yourself so much so that all around you will perceive just love and will be attracted to it. There's an African saying which goes, "if we have no enemy within, the enemy outside can do us no harm". We attract what we are. Love yourself, take care of yourself, have enough me time, give yourself treats, and focus on your goal on being successful. Your love for yourself is enough, any other love is extra. And make sure when you love, make it the agape type. One more thing, Jesus loves you.