I went through an awful divorce 3 yrs ago, my teenage children really went through a hard time. They are just starting to pull out of it. And Im so grateful! I on the other hand have had a very hard time as well. We were together for 28 yrs and he had an affair. My heart was crushed and my self esteem went down with it. Ive dated a few people in the last 3 years but they all seem to be very self absorbed and controlling and I find myself like a chameleon, always changing to suit the person Im with instead of feeling confident to be myself. I guess I feel if my husband could leave me after all those years, who would ever want me so I keep meeting these broken people. I keep praying that God brings me the perfect man for me but I keep meeting these people that aren't right. I cant imagine that God would want me to be alone for the rest of my life? or to settle for someone that isn't right. And I know that everything is in Gods timing but 3 yrs going on 4 is a long time to wait. I would like to ask for prayer in finally finding the perfect man for me and finally getting to move forward happily in my life. Thank you...