My wife is having outpatient surgery on Friday for a lesion in her vagina. The scare is cancer. The doctor said "don't worry", but any time you want to remove it and do a biopsy, it is scary. I know she is worried and I am doing what I can to calm her down. I'm scared too. I don't know what I'd do if anything happened to my wife.....my best friend. We've been together for 17 years and have 4 kids. She is the love of my life and just the thought of losing her scares me. Your prayers are greatly appreciated.