Anonymous
Prayer Request
Please pray for me. I chose my boyfriend (future husband) over my family and they are seeing it as the ultimate betrayal. They don't believe that my partner is a good person because he lost his temper at my parents. I just want their relationship to be healed and look at each other with the eyes of compassion.
I'm also praying that this is the right path for me. The closer the date of my departure comes, I feel the need to jump ship and stay in my comfort zone with my family.
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You are so truelly innocent and blind to what is happening here....so let me tell you. 1. You ARE hearing The voice of God. That voice of God will come through your parents, family and friends. You need to sPend time, praying over this and listen more carefully to what people are saying.
2. This temper of your boyfriends is not a once off. You have allowed it once and to the most important people in your life, the two that gave you life, trust me, YOU are not exempted. You will feel the wrath of this man every single day for all your married life unless you leave him NOW.
3. The very fact that you have doubts says it all, that you mind is not certain. Listen to that inner voice as a woman. It is never wrong. You can call it holy spirit, God, inner voice, but they are all screaming to you to NOT do this.
I am qualified to say all this because as I look back on my very own exact experience as you, I have so many regrets after 2 beautiful children. The anger got worse, my self esteem shrunk. As educated as I am, I was so in love that I didn't see clearly that I was in an abusive marriage. Until God made me wake up and smell the coffee as they say, too many years later. Dont wait PLEASE. There is someone out there who is right for you, if you just wait on God. I would live to counsel with you more because I believe that is my purpose after all I've been through! I prayed my whole marriage for GOD to change him, but when I reflect on how we began, all the signs were there, people told me, my heart told me, parents told me, God told me. And to be honest I knew also. So I didn't come on here by chance. I don't usually read all the prayer requests but I feel I was led to yours. Even logged in for the first time to respond!
I hope that you hear me and find the strength to walk away. Take your power today!
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Lord, I pray you give strength to this young lady to secure her blessed future with the right man at her side, who will love her unconditionally, respect her, honor her and build her. Most importantly, someone who is Godly and worthy and willing to walk the same path as her. In Jesus name I Pray, Amen!