The best thing you can do is be supportive and show your strength through your actions....encourage, don't lecture...she may find her way...you can continue to demonstrate goodness and love to her regardless.

Firstly, don't try to meet anyone before you take control of your OWN life. Once you do that, everything else will follow. I promise you. You will feel stronger, happier and that attracts happiness everywhere. First thing, can you do any training in an area where you can get a job you enjoy, sticking it out where you are, but training for something that gives you a sense of hope? Like even online programs, they ALWAYS have funding if you can't afford it. Don't give up. TRY something new. Online schools where you can get a certificate in something Google ideas...find YOURSELF. You won't be lonely once you find something inside yourself that makes you thrive....an inner strength because what YOU ARE DOING for yourself and your family will change it all. Baby steps. Get on the computer (if you don't have one try your local lilbrary, they have computers and internet you can use). That is step one. Each step will bring you closer to empowering yourself.