I too feel this way often. I'm praying for peace and understanding for you and your family.
Polly, I prayed for you and your situation this morning. Its not trivial to you and its not trivial to God. I pray that you get the help that you need to get caught up and don't have to struggle. It's hard and I'm sorry that you are having a rough time.
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I too feel this way often. I'm praying for peace and understanding for you and your family.