I am I. A 5 ur relationship with someone who does not deal with emotions. We have fought so many times because I voice how I feel. I always think it will be dissed Ent each time I approach him. But every time it turns into a fight that leaves me alone and feeling more hurt. He is not a physical person either so their is very little touching or even affirming. He feels he does all he can do by doing occasional chores and buying dinner or flowers. He has turned colder and colder and is now excluding me from most of his life. We don’t live together so it’s really hard to feel a part of his life. I know very little about anything he does outside of me. He doesn’t tell me his plans and he rarely makes plans with me. He offers for me to go along when he has something to do with family but it’s usually last minute and I tell him I’ll pass. I feel I’m wasting my time being with him because he doesn’t fulfill me and I don’t think he sees a future with me.
Please pray for me to be strong enough to let him go. I breaks my heart to give up. My emotional well being is being depleted daily. And I am making him stressed out. I feel trapped in a loveless relationship.
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You need to let him go and pray to God that he will send someone that will love u as u love him. I prayed to God for a good man I told God what kind of man I wanted. And I ended up with him as we did date as teenagers we dated for 2 years and now married 9 years I cant think God enough for giving me a wonderful husband. Im blessed. Im praying that u will find true love. One thing that we didn't do is live together or have sex until me married. We do talk if something is bothering us. We live our lives for God
I pray God gives him the vision to see you in better light and make you part of his lofe and you to find strength!