My husband and I recently retired back home after 40 years to be close to our grandchild. My oldest son has a severe anger management problem and is destroying our life...He has taken our privilege to see our grandchild away. It is tearing us apart but we must do the tough love thing at this point in our life. Either he get help or do not come around us... Pray that God will have his way, so we may get on with our life. I know we may never see our child or grandchild again...its hard to trust but God knows the answer...Pray for my family....